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I need some advice/help.. by Wahiz March 17, 2016 at 2:03 PM UTC

So recently I've been full of emotions (in real life reasons) and I need to find some way to calm down and relax, and I've tried all the things my friends have told me but none of it still works. I was hoping you guys may have some ideas on what I can do and it would mean a lot of you'd share them ^_^

DaFrozenBlaze March 17, 2016 at 2:03 PM UTC

Sleep
Write whatever is in your mind down
Play games where you don't rage
Don't think about homework

IcyCode March 17, 2016 at 3:03 PM UTC

Listen to some music, heavy stuff is often the best. May I suggest Imagine Dragons or ACDC

xNemoII March 17, 2016 at 3:03 PM UTC

Listen to music or watch YouTube or Netflix

NovaLikesPvP March 17, 2016 at 3:03 PM UTC

Have a life

Wahiz March 17, 2016 at 3:03 PM UTC

Have a life
Can you serious leave me alone, I have my own shit to deal with. And don't need some toxic shit ruining my day! ^~^

ImNotYourTiger March 17, 2016 at 3:03 PM UTC

Turn off your computer. Stop your addiction to minecraft (not trying to be rude, just saying minecraft tends to make some people mad). Sports also help me. Go to the gym or play football and use your anger in that to let it out. Always works for me.


Good luck

Wahiz March 17, 2016 at 3:03 PM UTC

Turn off your computer. Stop your addiction to minecraft (not trying to be rude, just saying minecraft tends to make some people mad). Sports also help me. Go to the gym or play football and use your anger in that to let it out. Always works for me.


Good luck
Surprisingly helpful (no offense) :p <3

NovaLikesPvP March 17, 2016 at 3:03 PM UTC

Can you serious leave me alone, I have my own shit to deal with. And don't need some toxic shit ruining my day! ^~^
As I said, have a life, take it if u want.

ImNotYourTiger March 17, 2016 at 3:03 PM UTC

Surprisingly helpful (no offense) :p <3
:P

Also try letting a friend know what you're going through. It really does help to know that someone knows what you're going through.

Have a good journey through life :)

AtditC March 17, 2016 at 3:03 PM UTC

Turn off your computer. Stop your addiction to minecraft (not trying to be rude, just saying minecraft tends to make some people mad). Sports also help me. Go to the gym or play football and use your anger in that to let it out. Always works for me.


Good luck
Agreed, minecraft indeed makes you rage much.



I'm speaking of many experiences. Many.

Acceqted March 17, 2016 at 3:03 PM UTC

Eat food, watch Netflix, get fat... and.... you'll feel great!! -Acceqted approved.

Crimson_Aught March 17, 2016 at 3:03 PM UTC

Tear some paper. It helps me :)

Wahiz March 17, 2016 at 3:03 PM UTC

As I said, have a life, take it if u want.
Please get off my threads

NovaLikesPvP March 17, 2016 at 3:03 PM UTC

Please get off my threads
k, then leave avicus

Numberz_ March 17, 2016 at 3:03 PM UTC

Speaking from experience... 
Go read a lot of books. Do stuff to help out in your local community. Sleep. Talk to family members. Write short stories. Shop. Volunteer your time. Watch movies. Become more religious. Go on trips. Sports events.  Explore areas outside of your comfort zone. Video games are still ok just learn jot to rage as much.

Legoche March 17, 2016 at 3:03 PM UTC

Music
Sleep
Sport

Wahiz March 17, 2016 at 3:03 PM UTC

k, then leave avicus
I don't have to leave Avicus. You just need to grow up and leave me alone

Legoche March 17, 2016 at 3:03 PM UTC

I don't have to leave Avicus. You just need to grow up and leave me alone
Ignore him, seriously.

Numberz_ March 17, 2016 at 3:03 PM UTC

I don't have to leave Avicus. You just need to grow up and leave me alone
I think this argument is pointless... Drop it and move on both of you.

NovaLikesPvP March 17, 2016 at 3:03 PM UTC

I don't have to leave Avicus. You just need to grow up and leave me alone
This should be locked, You can join The forums for appealing punishments, not for asking tf do irl.
You started this flame war, lemme finish it.

Clijmart March 17, 2016 at 3:03 PM UTC

This should be locked, You can join The forums for appealing punishments, not for asking tf do irl.
You started this flame war, lemme finish it.
Could you not act like a total scrub please?
If you can read, he posted it at ''Off Topic'' which is totally fine.
Want to war? Go somewhere else!

To GungLao_:
Try to do stuff you like, don't lay your focus on stuff you don't enjoy!
Hope you feel better soon!

Myworld6 March 17, 2016 at 4:03 PM UTC

GungLao: Read, write stories/poems (always works for me), talk to someone about it.

NovaLikesPvP: Enough. Please stop harassing GungLao. He is perfectly within his right to post this thread. You are acting extremely immature, and your continued abuse is unsettling.

NovaLikesPvP March 17, 2016 at 4:03 PM UTC

Could you not act like a total scrub please?
If you can read, he posted it at ''Off Topic'' which is totally fine.
Want to war? Go somewhere else!

To GungLao_:
Try to do stuff you like, don't lay your focus on stuff you don't enjoy!
Hope you feel better soon!
k, Just saying personal updates ( if this is ) are locked, It doesn't care if its on "offtopic section"..

FrostedCupcakez March 17, 2016 at 4:03 PM UTC

k, Just saying personal updates ( if this is ) are locked, It doesn't care if its on "offtopic section"..
I'm finding your behaviour extremely immature and disrespectful Nova, and it certainly isn't needed.

Dawson is asking for some help and your comment was highly unnecessary. This is a sensitive issue, leave him be please.

Further behaviour like this will not be tolerated. You have been asked to stop by World as well. If you continue you will be dealt with accordingly.

OP: When I need to relax I usually like to binge watch Netflix and eat a crap ton of food. Listening to music and just dancing your emotions out helps as well (: 

If you need to talk, let me know <3

NovaLikesPvP March 17, 2016 at 4:03 PM UTC

I'm finding your behaviour extremely immature and disrespectful Nova, and it certainly isn't needed.

Dawson is asking for some help and your comment was highly unnecessary. This is a sensitive issue, leave him be please.

Further behaviour like this will not be tolerated. You have been asked to stop by World as well. If you continue you will be dealt with accordingly.

OP: When I need to relax I usually like to binge watch Netflix and eat a crap ton of food. Listening to music and just dancing your emotions out helps as well (: 

If you need to talk, let me know <3
I'd like to see if this was actually respectful.
https://avicus.net/forums/394f20bbc?page=6
Pce

Numberz_ March 17, 2016 at 4:03 PM UTC

I'd like to see if this was actually respectful.
https://avicus.net/forums/394f20bbc?page=6
Pce
Two wrongs don't make a right. Even though I agree with you.

DaFrozenBlaze March 17, 2016 at 4:03 PM UTC

I'd like to see if this was actually respectful.
https://avicus.net/forums/394f20bbc?page=6
Pce
Just stop it

NovaLikesPvP March 17, 2016 at 4:03 PM UTC

Just stop it
No entiendo que buscas diciendo " solo para " si no das nada que atribuye en absolutamente nada, si no ayudara limitate a ser un humilde espectador.

Wahiz March 17, 2016 at 5:03 PM UTC

I'm finding your behaviour extremely immature and disrespectful Nova, and it certainly isn't needed.

Dawson is asking for some help and your comment was highly unnecessary. This is a sensitive issue, leave him be please.

Further behaviour like this will not be tolerated. You have been asked to stop by World as well. If you continue you will be dealt with accordingly.

OP: When I need to relax I usually like to binge watch Netflix and eat a crap ton of food. Listening to music and just dancing your emotions out helps as well (: 

If you need to talk, let me know <3
Thanks ;) <3

Myworld6 March 17, 2016 at 5:03 PM UTC

No entiendo que buscas diciendo " solo para " si no das nada que atribuye en absolutamente nada, si no ayudara limitate a ser un humilde espectador.
Last warning: Stop now.

hasl March 17, 2016 at 5:03 PM UTC

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E66v5GOPgkU

NovaLikesPvP March 17, 2016 at 5:03 PM UTC

Last warning: Stop now.
Do you even know What I said to frozen?

Myworld6 March 17, 2016 at 5:03 PM UTC

Do you even know What I said to frozen?
I was referring to how you were continuing to argue with Frosted. Two wrongs do not make a right, and therefore you should be mature enough to put aside any arguments you have had with GungLao in the past instead of making inappropriate comments that have done nothing more than cause offence in such a sensitive topic.

Now please; stop this.

ClubberNugget March 17, 2016 at 5:03 PM UTC

Music cures cancer, music solves world hunger


So listen to music, always helps me out

Crimson_Aught March 17, 2016 at 5:03 PM UTC

Do you even know What I said to frozen?
google translates: "I do not understand what you want to say "to only" if you do not give anything attributed absolutely nothing, if not help limit yourself to be a humble spectator."

NovaLikesPvP March 17, 2016 at 6:03 PM UTC

google translates: "I do not understand what you want to say "to only" if you do not give anything attributed absolutely nothing, if not help limit yourself to be a humble spectator."
translation lvl google ;P

Goodnighht March 17, 2016 at 6:03 PM UTC

translation lvl google ;P
Nova, I get it, you don't like him, I don't either, but you're being extremely rude, and he just asked for help... And you've been asked multiple times to stop, and you don't. I understand, you dislike him, but he asked for help, why don't you be nice for a change and try to help him, even if you do dislike him. He's still a person.

OP: Try reading, playing a peaceful game, sports, just running around outside, even if it's not to get stronger, it helps me clear my mind and calm down, don't do anything that's competitive and fast paced

JJTheGuy March 17, 2016 at 7:03 PM UTC

Smoking weed relaxes the body, but I don't think you should do that.

steven5703 March 17, 2016 at 7:03 PM UTC

Write something really offensive and then throw it out.

Or just cry... it actually helps alot.

Speeded March 17, 2016 at 7:03 PM UTC

Anime ;D

Robin_DD_J March 17, 2016 at 8:03 PM UTC

I'm not even kidding, punch something, a lot.

FrozenSolstice March 17, 2016 at 8:03 PM UTC

This has been dealt with by other Moderators, but I'm going to reinforce it. Nova, please do not start flame wars. It's not tolerated, especially on a topic like this.

@Dawson:

I've got a few. First off, if you're feeling angry, try and punch something. I'll punch a pillow, since it won't hurt me. A less destructive way of getting out anger is spending time with animals, especially dogs. They do brighten up your mood.

As for sadness, do NOT be afraid to cry sometimes. You need to cry, just let it out.

If you want to have the best results, listen to happy and feel good music. Watch a funny movie, hang out with friends and even look through some photos that contain good memories.

Hope this helped!

Wahiz March 17, 2016 at 8:03 PM UTC

This has been dealt with by other Moderators, but I'm going to reinforce it. Nova, please do not start flame wars. It's not tolerated, especially on a topic like this.

@Dawson:

I've got a few. First off, if you're feeling angry, try and punch something. I'll punch a pillow, since it won't hurt me. A less destructive way of getting out anger is spending time with animals, especially dogs. They do brighten up your mood.

As for sadness, do NOT be afraid to cry sometimes. You need to cry, just let it out.

If you want to have the best results, listen to happy and feel good music. Watch a funny movie, hang out with friends and even look through some photos that contain good memories.

Hope this helped!
Like that photo I have of me and you when we played mcsg with Spookz?? :P <3 xD

FrozenSolstice March 17, 2016 at 8:03 PM UTC

Like that photo I have of me and you when we played mcsg with Spookz?? :P <3 xD
Sure, that'll work. xD

Wahiz March 17, 2016 at 8:03 PM UTC

Sure, that'll work. xD
There are also 2 more that I found in my drive, from when me you and Gummi3 were on my server xDDDDDDDD

flyofff March 17, 2016 at 8:03 PM UTC

Start recording new things. 
Play or learn how to play an instrument.
Keep making forum posts on Avicus and explain us your ideas, feelings etc. Create a second family.

Wahiz March 17, 2016 at 8:03 PM UTC

Start recording new things. 
Play or learn how to play an instrument.
Keep making forum posts on Avicus and explain us your ideas, feelings etc. Create a second family.
My Second Family:
-TheBestTeamEverQrysis
-TheMopRilo
-AcceqtedTheButt
-MxddyTheHoe
-ElsaThe#!&* (MEMES)
-JackThe
-LegoTheBowNub
-PlainOldJess
-UHCTeamKillerEric
-StevenMemedMyAnus
-BorrahTheDefender
-RandomTheChildToucher

(That's my second family)

flyofff March 17, 2016 at 8:03 PM UTC

My Second Family:
-TheBestTeamEverQrysis
-TheMopRilo
-AcceqtedTheButt
-MxddyTheHoe
-ElsaThe#!&* (MEMES)
-JackThe
-LegoTheBowNub
-PlainOldJess
-UHCTeamKillerEric
-StevenMemedMyAnus
-BorrahTheDefender
-RandomTheChildToucher

(That's my second family)
Stay in touch with them. Do not let em forget you =)

And can you please explain the main reason you feel yourself bad?

ElementalAssasin March 17, 2016 at 8:03 PM UTC

listen to dank music or just sick or cool music or any other mucis as random said music=lyfe

Xuph March 17, 2016 at 9:03 PM UTC

If youre mad and stuff come to ts ill talk to you and trust me life wasn't created for your fun. It goes shit a lot but the way you handle stuff abd deal with them is what matters.


OP: punch stuff you hate. Few examples:
- history book
- sandwich from past week buried under the books
- that annoying kid that laughs in math lesson when the answer is 69.

Cryomancies March 17, 2016 at 9:03 PM UTC

Draw a Shrek fanfiction.
Let your mind wander when you draw that shit, and don't censor anything.




Works for me at least.

Numberz_ March 17, 2016 at 9:03 PM UTC

If youre mad and stuff come to ts ill talk to you and trust me life wasn't created for your fun. It goes shit a lot but the way you handle stuff abd deal with them is what matters.


OP: punch stuff you hate. Few examples:
- history book
- sandwich from past week buried under the books
- that annoying kid that laughs in math lesson when the answer is 69.
"history book"
You wanna fight mate?

BoldAndBrash March 17, 2016 at 10:03 PM UTC

School helps me a lot and sometimes weekends can be the worst. Play a game that you like but doesn't make you mad or upset. Watch funny videos.

__Talus__ March 17, 2016 at 10:03 PM UTC

I usually just procrastinate and do nothing.
Maybe if you have a pet go and talk to it. It can't hurt you and argue with you :P

Sevoo March 17, 2016 at 10:03 PM UTC

Have a life
Can you do me a favor, and you know, stop? Kthxbai


@OP I'd talk about it. I mean, you might not think this, but your family always has an open ear. Also, take a break from Minecraft. I am not saying get a life, but just take a 1 week break and see what happens.

Zegita March 17, 2016 at 11:03 PM UTC

i swear you post so much but oh well to the main point

just ignore it - easier said than done but it's the best thing to do; possibly do something that entertains you or distracts you from what you are feeling which is sadness. watch a bunch of films, please do not eat a bunch of junk food that is just bad and will make you fat seriously that will make you depressed even more :P.

ImNotYourTiger March 18, 2016 at 1:03 AM UTC

What's confusing is everyone's arguing and getting mad at each other when this is supposed to be helpful for him xD

FrozenSolstice March 18, 2016 at 1:03 AM UTC

I usually just procrastinate and do nothing.
Maybe if you have a pet go and talk to it. It can't hurt you and argue with you :P
I'm a retired procrastinator. Let me tell you, procrastination makes you more stressed in the long run. :c

Iron March 18, 2016 at 1:03 AM UTC

I play destiny, get that 5 KD, eZ stress relief. Play destiny dawson, Destiny = no stress.

Sevoo March 18, 2016 at 1:03 AM UTC

k, Just saying personal updates ( if this is ) are locked, It doesn't care if its on "offtopic section"..
Can you, for once, not be a total jerk? Just for once, that'd be great, okay? JUST ONE TIME. 

I mean, I don't even know what to say anymore. I don't know if your doing this do laugh about it, just to make yourself feel better or are so god damn stupid you don't realize this hurts someone.

Wahiz March 31, 2016 at 11:03 PM UTC

I play destiny, get that 5 KD, eZ stress relief. Play destiny dawson, Destiny = no stress.
I've played Destiny but I raged at that when I get shot through objects xd

Kammeh April 1, 2016 at 12:04 AM UTC

When I have a crap ton of stressful things happening in my life (always) I sometimes take a walk and listen to some motivational music (or at least something that'll pump me up) If I'm angry I'll take deep breaths (tons) and just walk, If need be, stomp it out on the ground. One more thing, if you're angry or just feeling really stressed/sad, if you can, go to the gym. I do, and for the time I do, I pretty much forget about everything else and put all my energy to lift/run/exercise as much as possible. When you come home, you're tired and you want to relax. It also releases certain chemicals in your brain that raise your mood. If not that or if you want to do more, play a sport. If I really don't feel like being with anyone, I just play hard by myself and focus on playing the sport, nothing else, I would honestly recommend playing with friends though as they help raise your mood and you have some competition that'll boost you to player harder, further taking your stress of your mind. One more thing that I usually do is set goals for myself. I like to imagine myself with my goals completed, and that motivates me to do things rather than sitting idly.Hang out with friends you trust, and really really try to be nice to others. Do something that's very thoughtful and once you do, you feel so good that you did something nice. Don't do it so you get something in return, but just because you can. It honestly makes me feel really happy and great. Maybe if someone is having a bad day, cheer them up and listen to them. Give your parents or friend a surprise, or just help out someone you see who needs help. That's what I'd recommend to do. 

Also, don't forget about your stress unless it's a thought about yourself or about someone else (like a bad thought ex: you hating yourself/hating someone else). If the cause for your pain is something else, a family matter, try finding a way to fix it. Don't let it overwhelm you either. If the cause is a problem, try fixing it as it may come back and bite you again, making your situation much worse. (don't know if I was able to elaborate and properly explain what I exactly meant)

I hope this helps, feel better and have a great day! :D

MidnightBeats April 1, 2016 at 2:04 AM UTC

This should be locked, You can join The forums for appealing punishments, not for asking tf do irl.
You started this flame war, lemme finish it.
"You started this flame war, lemme finish it."

You started with "get a life," the fuck you on about

DaFrozenBlaze April 1, 2016 at 5:04 AM UTC

"You started this flame war, lemme finish it."

You started with "get a life," the fuck you on about
Follow Alien's advice, don't talk to him...

piratewithgun April 1, 2016 at 8:04 AM UTC

Turn off your computer. Stop your addiction to minecraft (not trying to be rude, just saying minecraft tends to make some people mad). Sports also help me. Go to the gym or play football and use your anger in that to let it out. Always works for me.


Good luck
Best advice

shahmi April 1, 2016 at 1:04 PM UTC

Like that photo I have of me and you when we played mcsg with Spookz?? :P <3 xD
Honestly Dawson we have had our ups and downs, but I'm not gonna be like nova just because you are going through a tough time.

So what you should do is find a good show on Netflix and chill with your right hand. :P

Also, you can try doing an outside activity or just sit on a chair outside your house and just look at the view, it helps me!

Good Luck m9

Wahiz April 6, 2016 at 4:04 PM UTC

I like how someone can who replied to this has made me feel like shit for the past 4 days...

Stimulating April 6, 2016 at 6:04 PM UTC

Depends on level of sadness, etc. 
If somewhat sad, happy music.
Pretty sad = sad asf music: 
Witt Lowry - Kindest Regards 
Witt Lowry - Dreaming With Our Eyes Open 
Katawa Shoujo OST - Cold Iron 
Katawa Shoujo OST - Moment of Decision 

The sad music actually helps A LOT

Social interaction or interaction with a pet can help a lot.

BoldAndBrash April 6, 2016 at 8:04 PM UTC

I like how someone can who replied to this has made me feel like shit for the past 4 days...
No offense or anything, I'm sorry for what you're going through, but what was the point of that comment?

Wahiz April 6, 2016 at 8:04 PM UTC

No offense or anything, I'm sorry for what you're going through, but what was the point of that comment?
It's showing how some people can make you think you know who they're and then they end up being a jerk.

Zintenka April 7, 2016 at 2:04 AM UTC

Try drawing what's on your mind, mate... let your mind wander and explore. Whether it's on paper or a computer, draw your thoughts and visions...



Or you could just try walking for a bit, get a job or something. Listen to music or right some fanfiction man.

DonaldMyTrump April 7, 2016 at 2:04 AM UTC

Try drawing what's on your mind, mate... let your mind wander and explore. Whether it's on paper or a computer, draw your thoughts and visions...



Or you could just try walking for a bit, get a job or something. Listen to music or right some fanfiction man.
this is the most beautiful thing ive ever seen 10/10

XtraMajestical April 7, 2016 at 8:04 AM UTC

Listen to music and dont think of all the bad things in your life just the good ones