Love help :P by OriginaI January 30, 2015 at 3:01 AM UTC
Hey guys,I think I finally actually like someone alot, but don't know how to approach her, I don't know a lot about girls so I need some help, I think TNTturtles made one a while back but I'm not sure... All I want is advice.
Please no troll comments
Birdy <3
ViceTechnicolour January 30, 2015 at 3:01 AM UTC
Some more information would be nise. Do you personally know her/talk to her?JKawesome January 30, 2015 at 3:01 AM UTC
Just start by casually talking to her about school or something, then move on from there, talk about something that you both have interest in or both have in common, and guide the conversation along. Keep her attention, and if it becomes awkward or something just change the topic and keep talking to her. That's a first step, at least based on my experiences.Also, always remember:
smitdaIt January 30, 2015 at 3:01 AM UTC
Cool!!!!!!!!Cyclops January 30, 2015 at 3:01 AM UTC
Just start by casually talking to her about school or something, then move on from there, talk about something that you both have interest in or both have in common, and guide the conversation along. Keep her attention, and if it becomes awkward or something just change the topic and keep talking to her. That's a first step, at least based on my experiences.
Also, always remember:
kycrafft January 30, 2015 at 3:01 AM UTC
You can try to find steven's old topic of pick up lines?OriginaI January 30, 2015 at 3:01 AM UTC
Thanks jk :D@Para I really haven't talked to her because she's not in my grade =\ she rides the same bus as I do though.
Newcleus January 30, 2015 at 3:01 AM UTC
http://avicus.net/spicytunaroll9OriginaI January 30, 2015 at 3:01 AM UTC
Man I need to to contact him.smitdaIt January 30, 2015 at 3:01 AM UTC
Thanks jk :D
@Para I really haven't talked to her because she's not in my grade =\ she rides the same bus as I do though.
Entertain her with these sick games!!!
You can turn
into 
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
OriginaI January 30, 2015 at 3:01 AM UTC
http://www.instructables.com/id/Stay-Entertained-on-Long-Bus-Rides/
Entertain her with these sick games!!!
You can turn
Thxxx x)))))
OriginaI January 30, 2015 at 3:01 AM UTC
http://www.instructables.com/id/Stay-Entertained-on-Long-Bus-Rides/
Entertain her with these sick games!!!
You can turn
D00ZiE January 30, 2015 at 3:01 AM UTC
Ok, this is a fool proof plan that can work for almost any situation. Step by step:- Look her in the eyes from across the room.
- Slowly approach her, not too fast, not too slow.
- Stare into her eyes for around 3 seconds.
- Then you drop this bad boy on her, "If I were a Nidoking, you would be my Nidoqueen." 60% of the time it works every time.
Honestly, just be yourself. Make small talk and what not. If you guys have a spark it'll happen on it's own, but don't force something that's not meant to be.
smitdaIt January 30, 2015 at 3:01 AM UTC
Ok, this is a fool proof plan that can work for almost any situation. Step by step:From personal experience I can confirm this works.
- Look her in the eyes from across the room.
- Slowly approach her, not too fast, not too slow.
- Stare into her eyes for around 3 seconds.
- Then you drop this bad boy on her, "If I were a Nidoking, you would be my Nidoqueen." 60% of the time it works every time.
Honestly, just be yourself. Make small talk and what not. If you guys have a spark it'll happen on it's own, but don't force something that's not meant to be.
_Phyre January 30, 2015 at 3:01 AM UTC
Good at singing?1) Make lyrics to a song
2) Talk to god of Music (Tristam, Tobu, Rogue, Pegboardnerds) to do a collab to make a tune for the lyrics.
3) Sing in front of the stage for her
4) Song should turn out something liek dis: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tpxVFndWhyA
<3
(In all seriousness, What DOOZ said, he's the love god!) (Not rlly but still :P)
OriginaI January 30, 2015 at 3:01 AM UTC
@D00Zie thanks a lot man :D@vsplesk haha I'm not really a good singer! Also hop on ts more!
ViceTechnicolour January 30, 2015 at 3:01 AM UTC
Good at singing?
1) Make lyrics to a song
2) Talk to god of Music (Tristam, Tobu, Rogue, Pegboardnerds) to do a collab to make a tune for the lyrics.
3) Sing in front of the stage for her
4) Song should turn out something liek dis: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tpxVFndWhyA
<3
(In all seriousness, What DOOZ said, he's the love god!) (Not rlly but still :P)
MidnightBeats January 30, 2015 at 4:01 AM UTC
Be honest. Just say that you like her.Tell her that you hope your decision won't affect your friendship, and just say that you like her, a lot.
Don't act weird.
Good luck. :)
badgg January 30, 2015 at 4:01 AM UTC
Take things slowly, no need to rush.chaibrit1 January 30, 2015 at 4:01 AM UTC
Be confident and nise, it's okay if you're nervous to talk to her, she might be too! Have small talk and make her laugh & smile. Find some things in common and get to know more about her. Just make sure you don't lie about liking/disliking something just because she does. (Bonus points if you sing/serenade her! :P)toketrain January 30, 2015 at 5:01 AM UTC
Once you're ready, go for it. You might not get an opportunity like this for a while, it's good to seize the day. Just say screw it. What is the worst that could happen? Everything is only temporary. Just pep talk yourself into it. That's what I do when I do this kind of stuff.Dyspa January 30, 2015 at 5:01 AM UTC
@Straightened: Asian girls are eZ, don't get me wrong.@vsplesk101: Probably Tobu would help.
@roboticboy16: Confirmed.
@ebirdy9: Teach her how to pvp.
But for real, just be yourself, that's the most important thing of all. I'm pretty sure she will like you if you're yourself, good luck! ^~^
Shoto_ January 30, 2015 at 5:01 AM UTC
1. Make sure she's single and straight. Girls will friendzone you if she has a man or if she isn't straight. 2. Just say "Hi, what's up?" on the bus. Slowly become her friend. But don't be obsessive! Show that you aren't creepy or a loner by talking to your friends, too. 3. Ask if she wants to hang out some time, but only if it's going well. You do NOT want to be that random guy who asks random girls out. Got yourself a gf. Ask for her number and continue. Just a quick tip: Nice guys don't finish last. The cocky ones and the non confident ones do. Take care of yourself and be confident in perfect doses.RightSide January 30, 2015 at 6:01 AM UTC
Teach her how to build a good house !lactify January 30, 2015 at 7:01 AM UTC
I would tell her you like her. Be honest and say why. Then possibly ask her out if you want to. Places like a restaurant, cinema, etc. Your confidence will build up over time.TheOpAmerican January 30, 2015 at 7:01 AM UTC
1) impress2) become friends
3) girls love nice guys who say cute stuff
4) take her out to the movies
5) put your arm around her
6) find a nice time to ask her to be yours
bam done
AstroPizza January 30, 2015 at 8:01 AM UTC
Order her domino's pizza.works every time.........
Camemes January 30, 2015 at 8:01 AM UTC
Just be yourself, if she doesn't like you for who you are, she ain't the one for you!kycrafft January 30, 2015 at 8:01 AM UTC
Be confident and nise, it's okay if you're nervous to talk to her, she might be too! Have small talk and make her laugh & smile. Find some things in common and get to know more about her. Just make sure you don't lie about liking/disliking something just because she does. (Bonus points if you sing/serenade her! :P)
Also, boys can sing?
OPTOBAT January 30, 2015 at 10:01 AM UTC
Okay so, you run at her yelling gibberish, grab her a$$, then yo-jks, jks i know what you mean man, I'm KIND OF in a similar position right now; I'm 15 and think i really like this girl, and what i do is just be myself, and i know how many times everyone has heard this one, but honestly, rather than trying all of this advice stuff and cracking jokes and doing things that don't naturally suit you, you just make jokes YOU would make and talk about YOUR interests and just bond with her by being yourself...
It's hard to explain with this kind of thing, but yeah, i hope i was of help :)
and good luck yo ;)
FrozenSolstice January 30, 2015 at 11:01 AM UTC
It's different for every girl. Get to know her. Know her interests, her likes and dislikes, stuff like that. Remember, some trick that might work on me, might not work on her.P.S (No trick works on me.... c:)
OriginaI January 30, 2015 at 11:01 AM UTC
Thanks for the advice everybody!I can play piano so maybe that could cover singing :P
Also, Im having a hard time staying confident to even talk to her.
S3M3L January 30, 2015 at 11:01 AM UTC
As you said you haven't talked to her before, I would say a "Hi" is enough. Try to be confident in yourself, even when it's the first time talking to this girl. No, you don't ask for a number at first, you should especially not sing to her or tell her you like her before you've even talked to her once. Ask her stuff, tell her stuff about you, girls like it when you show them you are interested, when you actually listen.Good luck my friend :)
Rainstruck January 30, 2015 at 12:01 PM UTC
I don't really know a whole lot because I am lucky and have a girlfriend because we both like each other, but just be confident:) The worst she can do is decline. There are plenty more fish in the sea if it doesn't work out so I am sure you will find a m8.:)Trexychan January 30, 2015 at 12:01 PM UTC
Here's a pickup line that MIGHT work: :PYo baby, if you were writing on paper, you'd be FINE print.
(Im sry, its all I can do to help)
Rainstruck January 30, 2015 at 12:01 PM UTC
Here's a pickup line that MIGHT work: :P
Yo baby, if you were writing on paper, you'd be FINE print.
(Im sry, its all I can do to help)
Did you fart, because you blew me away?!?
Lol, but don't use pickup lines because they never work.
Trexychan January 30, 2015 at 12:01 PM UTC
Or what about...
Did you fart, because you blew me away?!?
Lol, but don't use pickup lines because they never work.
(Thank us later)
Rainstruck January 30, 2015 at 12:01 PM UTC
Yea. But at least when you get to know her more you can at least make her laugh by using these ridiculous lines me and rile made up. :P
(Thank us later)
mustafa January 30, 2015 at 1:01 PM UTC
Do what you've gotta doSplades January 30, 2015 at 2:01 PM UTC
Man I need to to contact him.
JJTheGuy January 30, 2015 at 2:01 PM UTC
Ebirdy, ebirdy, ebirdy... Let HER talk. Girls like it when people listen to them. If she isn't comfortable with telling you things, make small talk. Getting a girlfriend is no easy thing for guys who aren't... "Hot". We have to work for it. And as for confidence.... Dude, trust me. Don't be scared, just walk up, and introduce yourself. "Hi, I'm (name). What's your name?" Then make small talk. Good luck dude!ImJeezus January 30, 2015 at 3:01 PM UTC
Or what about...
Did you fart, because you blew me away?!?
Lol, but don't use pickup lines because they never work.
StickilasFanboy January 30, 2015 at 3:01 PM UTC
Get your friend to push you into her ;D and from there....................OriginaI January 30, 2015 at 8:01 PM UTC
OMG thanks guys!I've decided to wait for something natural to happen, or maybe just say hi and from their.
Da_Baus January 31, 2015 at 10:01 PM UTC
Make sure to tell us when anything happens :)Notalgicular January 31, 2015 at 10:01 PM UTC
Simple https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xQdPt2xUPXoiDiamondPorkchop January 31, 2015 at 11:01 PM UTC
Well, to ask her out, you're first going to start with a "Hey, wanna catch a movie?"If she says yes, throw a DVD at her.
Mission accomplished.
JKawesome January 31, 2015 at 11:01 PM UTC
Well, to ask her out, you're first going to start with a "Hey, wanna catch a movie?"
If she says yes, throw a DVD at her.
Mission accomplished.
iDiamondPorkchop January 31, 2015 at 11:01 PM UTC
And if she doesn't catch it?
Rainstruck January 31, 2015 at 11:01 PM UTC
Hope all goes well sir! Well if you end up actually getting her try converting her to avicus.Mooch24 January 31, 2015 at 11:01 PM UTC
get some fresh j's and a nice sweaterRobin_DD_J January 31, 2015 at 11:01 PM UTC
This actually worked for me.I sent a snap to the girls best friend by "mistake" .
Say: Aren't you "Name"s best friend?
She says yes, hopefully
Say: Ow cool, could i get her name? I forgot it.
--
Then just send her a snap by "mistake" aswell.
Done.
MissCarmel January 31, 2015 at 11:01 PM UTC
Thanks jk :D
@Para I really haven't talked to her because she's not in my grade =\ she rides the same bus as I do though.
JUBBINATOR January 31, 2015 at 11:01 PM UTC
OMG thanks guys!
I've decided to wait for something natural to happen, or maybe just say hi and from their.
Newcleus February 1, 2015 at 12:02 AM UTC
shomethemoney is his skype.
OriginaI February 1, 2015 at 12:02 AM UTC
is she older or younger than you?
@Jubb how?
@baus will do :)
@Robin thanks haha
@Mooch :D
Mooch24 February 1, 2015 at 12:02 AM UTC
A little younger.
@Jubb how?
@baus will do :)
@Robin thanks haha
@Mooch :D
the age matters a lot. gotta flaunt your confidence and experience depending on the difference.
MissCarmel February 1, 2015 at 1:02 AM UTC
hohohoh
the age matters a lot. gotta flaunt your confidence and experience depending on the difference.
JUBBINATOR February 1, 2015 at 1:02 AM UTC
A little younger.
@Jubb how?
@baus will do :)
@Robin thanks haha
@Mooch :D
kycrafft February 1, 2015 at 1:02 AM UTC
Are you a pencil sharpener? bcuz you sharpened my pencil.
It doesn't stop and it's smells funny.
FlufflesSub February 1, 2015 at 1:02 AM UTC
Never listen to me. The endOriginaI February 1, 2015 at 3:02 AM UTC
Well you're younger, so you got that to take into account. Unless you LOOK the age gap, it's gonna be mostly personality/ conversation based. And about the waiting game, see, you can become her friend, but if you stay too long in the friend zone you're gonna get stranded. Miss your chance, she moves on. Ask too early, you might make things awkward. Now, don't do anything different cos of what I said if you honestly think that's the way to go, just bear in mind you gotta time things right.
JUBBINATOR February 1, 2015 at 3:02 AM UTC
I mean I'm older than her.
OriginaI February 1, 2015 at 3:02 AM UTC
Ah good! That's better. Now how much older?
JJTheGuy February 1, 2015 at 4:02 AM UTC
Hang on, I still have yet to know what kind of girl she is. Nerdy? Popular? Shy? Sport? Which is it??JUBBINATOR February 1, 2015 at 4:02 AM UTC
Under a year older though, but I'd say around 7-8 months.
JKawesome February 1, 2015 at 5:02 AM UTC
This actually worked for me.
I sent a snap to the girls best friend by "mistake" .
Say: Aren't you "Name"s best friend?
She says yes, hopefully
Say: Ow cool, could i get her name? I forgot it.
--
Then just send her a snap by "mistake" aswell.
Done.
_Mx_ February 1, 2015 at 5:02 AM UTC
I'd recommend just talking to her, usually it just ends up happening naturally :)FrostedCupcakez February 1, 2015 at 6:02 AM UTC
A girl or guy who doesn't like you for who you are isn't worth it, you should never change for someone. Don't be nervous around her, talk to her like you could tell her almost anything. Be yourself, be confident and remember to breath. You don't to rush into anything, just act like yourself. And also remember that most of the time guys or girls get friend zoned because they don't tell the other person that they like them. So stay strong, be confident, be yourself. Make sure you're ready for a relationship if she likes you back though, and make sure you treat her like a princess when you get her ;)EDIT: I added guy/girl for anyone who wants advice, so xD Yeah.
Dyspa February 1, 2015 at 6:02 AM UTC
A girl or guy who doesn't like you for who you are isn't worth it, you should never change for someone. Don't be nervous around her, talk to her like you could tell her almost anything. Be yourself, be confident and remember to breath. You don't to rush into anything, just act like yourself. And also remember that most of the time guys or girls get friend zoned because they don't tell the other person that they like them. So stay strong, be confident, be yourself. Make sure you're ready for a relationship if she likes you back though, and make sure you treat her like a princess when you get her ;)
EDIT: I added guy/girl for anyone who wants advice, so xD Yeah.
Administrafer February 1, 2015 at 9:02 AM UTC
The worst thing you can do is get "friend-zoned". Keep your distance, but keep in touch every day or so.Confidence is really important too, so keep that in mind! C:
StewieFG February 1, 2015 at 9:02 AM UTC
Just start by casually talking to her about school or something, then move on from there, talk about something that you both have interest in or both have in common, and guide the conversation along. Keep her attention, and if it becomes awkward or something just change the topic and keep talking to her. That's a first step, at least based on my experiences.
Also, always remember:
OriginaI February 1, 2015 at 12:02 PM UTC
Hang on, I still have yet to know what kind of girl she is. Nerdy? Popular? Shy? Sport? Which is it??
@Everybody else, thanks so much!!! I'll try talking to her on the bus on Monday :P
StickilasFanboy February 1, 2015 at 12:02 PM UTC
Shy, I think sporty. (Like me!<3)
@Everybody else, thanks so much!!! I'll try talking to her on the bus on Monday :P
OriginaI February 1, 2015 at 3:02 PM UTC
Sit with her on the bus and say there are no more spots left and that your imaginary friends are taking up the rest of the spots
Atdit February 1, 2015 at 4:02 PM UTC
She would think I'm weird then.
Mooch24 February 1, 2015 at 4:02 PM UTC
Sit with her on the bus and say there are no more spots left and that your imaginary friends are taking up the rest of the spots
no :p
hasl February 1, 2015 at 4:02 PM UTC
ebirdy9From my experience with girls and love. This is the best help I can possibly give you: Be yourself. You may find talking to that girl or just approaching her nerve-racking, so? It just means you like her, if you stutter when you talk to her, than just calm down, don't get embarrassed. I stutter when I speak, I am not very self-confident, but I don't care. People have said to me, right in the face, and I just said: "So what?". It's part of you, who you are. If you get off at the same bus stop, then just walk along side her, and just ask how her day went, nothing to much. Day by day you can progress, ask something more personal, start to make jokes, make it a 'thing'. That you and her walk from the bus together and have a nice chat. If you only see her at the bus, then occasionally say something 'Nice day today, eh?' something subtle, just so she knows you notice her. Every relationship is unique, and I can't help you anymore unless you give me something to work with. You may feel asking for help on the forums can seem better, but it's manufactured by us, stop. Think. What do want to do? What would you do? And that's what you should chose, your ideas. What's the harm in trying?
This is 100% true, the first proper relationship I had (I'm only 13), started by me just picking up her pencil in a test, she smiled and whispered 'Thank you', and that sparked our friendship.
Take it easy, Jack.
_Phyre February 1, 2015 at 4:02 PM UTC
ebirdy9
From my experience with girls and love. This is the best help I can possibly give you: Be yourself. You may find talking to that girl or just approaching her nerve-racking, so? It just means you like her, if you stutter when you talk to her, than just calm down, don't get embarrassed. I stutter when I speak, I am not very self-confident, but I don't care. People have said to me, right in the face, and I just said: "So what?". It's part of you, who you are. If you get off at the same bus stop, then just walk along side her, and just ask how her day went, nothing to much. Day by day you can progress, ask something more personal, start to make jokes, make it a 'thing'. That you and her walk from the bus together and have a nice chat. If you only see her at the bus, then occasionally say something 'Nice day today, eh?' something subtle, just so she knows you notice her. Every relationship is unique, and I can't help you anymore unless you give me something to work with. You may feel asking for help on the forums can seem better, but it's manufactured by us, stop. Think. What do want to do? What would you do? And that's what you should chose, your ideas. What's the harm in trying?
This is 100% true, the first proper relationship I had (I'm only 13), started by me just picking up her pencil in a test, she smiled and whispered 'Thank you', and that sparked our friendship.
Take it easy, Jack.
ParthDarthVader February 1, 2015 at 4:02 PM UTC
Let me tell you a tale about my experience with liking a girl younger than me:I got FRIENDZONED
PieZ February 1, 2015 at 5:02 PM UTC
The worst thing you can do is get "friend-zoned". Keep your distance, but keep in touch every day or so.
Confidence is really important too, so keep that in mind! C:
RefuseToSink February 1, 2015 at 5:02 PM UTC
My only advice is to not be super clingy. Clingy people are annoying>.<
Ducksfanwaterloo February 1, 2015 at 5:02 PM UTC
Just go for it!x)
OriginaI February 1, 2015 at 8:02 PM UTC
Thanks everybody once again, I don't walk home with her she's only on my bus.Also, any sentences that can help me easily talk to her like, I don't want to randomly say hey its "name" , I'm not sure.
Trexychan February 1, 2015 at 8:02 PM UTC
How 'bout I take her hostage on avicus and then you come in and 10 heart rek me?source_route February 1, 2015 at 9:02 PM UTC
be sweet don't be overly obsessive, dont be fatDa_Baus February 1, 2015 at 9:02 PM UTC
Don't take my advice btw I got my gf by playing truth or dare with them and was dared to kiss her x3JJTheGuy February 1, 2015 at 10:02 PM UTC
Shy and sporty... Now I go to work. If you want more advice (not pickup lines or anything like that god no), and advice on how to talk to her, my skype is JJTheGuy99.Ducksfanwaterloo February 1, 2015 at 10:02 PM UTC
How 'bout I take her hostage on avicus and then you come in and 10 heart rek me?
_Phyre February 1, 2015 at 10:02 PM UTC
Hey girl, my love for you is like diarrhea, I cant hold it in <3BelgiumWaffles February 1, 2015 at 11:02 PM UTC
Good luck buddy i already won my prinses one tip dont show to much intreresested girls dont like that play iT cooland never give her to much complements
girls dont like greedy boys